Abuse is never okay

                                           Anyone can be abused and be an abuser



I am a survivor of abuse ; multiple times by several people .  I know more than
anyone what is like to be verbally , mentally and emotionally abused and trust
me , know one wants to be a victim of this . That is why I was shocked when
I found out that actress Amber Heard lied about being abused by Johnny Depp .
At the time she made her claims public , I was saddened that he had been
''abusing her '' but something made me think that she was sadly lying . As a
real survivor I saw no sincerity in her demeanor ; I wanted to believe her and
I always stand by and support victims and survivors pf abuse .  Given Depp's
unfortunate history of alcohol and drug abuse , I wondered if maybe he was
guilty and that maybe it was mutual abuse . But when those tapes of Amber
admitting to all types of abuse towards her ex-husband surfaced , I was shocked
 saddened and, was triggered to the point of tears . Also Ms. Heard's
blatant action of muting comments on her Instagram and smug attitude
convinces me of her guilt . Yes I know Johnny sent his friends private
text messages expressing his justified anger towards Amber .  As a
survivor myself , I can relate to saying things about my abuser out of
anger ; he never said those things to Amber .  She is an abuser who hides
behind her white privilege and who loves to play the victim . Amber
is a classic narc and sociopath who delights in hurting people .  Look
up her history of abuse and harassment .  Of course we should believe all
victims of abuse but sadly some individuals lie which then makes it
difficult to believe real victims of abuse . So shame on Amber Heard .
She is a horrible human being for lying about being abused !